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02 Aug 2013 7:28PM
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I need some advice. I've totally neglected my personal (dating) life and I was a workaholic. Now I'm staring at 45 and I have no wife or kids.

I would like to get married and have kids so I am not a geriatric father.

My parents have hounded me to give them grandchildren. Now that I've told them I want to find a wife they are on a mission to get me one (we are Asian).

Most of the potential females they have scouted are way younger than me by 20 years. They are pretty and of course and have nice bodies and I'm tempted by the thought of banging a 25 year old. Their reasoning is that someone that age can still make babies easily versus a 40 year old.

Downside to all this is that...well my wife is 25 years old. Will I be able to handle a girl that listens to Justin Bieber and Celina Gomez? Her friends would be around the same age as her, and my friends are around my age. Would make for interesting parties huh?

I have used dating sites to filter women closer to my age that still would like to have children. So far no luck as maybe I'm pushing too hard for marriage and they sense that and it's over after one or two dates.

What my parents can offer is a ready made wife that will start popping out kids. But again will a 23, 24, 25 year old get on my nerves because of the age gap? I am in excellent shape and most people think I'm maybe 35.

What do you guys think-apart from the hot sex?

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02 Aug 2013 7:38PM

Stay single, much more fun!

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02 Aug 2013 8:24PM

I can't believe you're asking advice here, but...

25 ??? Fucking forget it, she will drive you insane !

There's a whole lot more to marriage than having kids, focus on finding someone you like and let the marriage take care of itself if and when it becomes appropriate.
Marriage should be the result of a happy and stable relationship and/or family, it will never be the path to one.

If you treat marriage as an end in itself it will be doomed to fail.

Also I agree with the poster above, almost everyone I know who got married now regrets it.

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10 Oct 2022 3:33AM

look for an early thirty year old, she'll give you all the kids you need. At 35 she'll be in her prime and hornery than ever..

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22 May 2023 3:39AM

I'm 65yo and my wife is turning 34 yo this week. It hasn't been a problem except when you want to talk about things that happened before they were born. Her friends range in age from 30s to my age, so that's not a problem either. My wife was 17 when we got together, and I was 48......not a problem. I say go for it!

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