Acrually I met my partner because of these and related kinks, in our case Dolcett related cannibalism fantasies but we play at the whole range of things.
That said I wouldn't dream of killing or raping her. In reality niether thing is in us. And, to be more than honest, we just have far too much fun cuddling and snuggling and just plain making love when we aren't role playing.
I have no idea why I have this fetish and am no longer driving my self nuts trying to figure it all out. It's fun when two people agree on it to bother with that.
For me I just can't imagine what is attractive about someone being shit all over or the notion of injesting that. But, hey, different strokes, right? I don't have to watch the videos or look at the pictures. (I don't.) I've been around the snuff/necro community since the mid 90s and to this day outside of the very rare self styled cannibal or the (too common) breath play accident where someone has died.
We aren't psychopaths or sociopaths who kill as part of thier idea of power games rather than a sexual fetish. For the overwhelming majority of us it's and adult game of cops and robbers or whatever you played as children. And just think of all those people that flock to slasher movies and things like Saw and I Saw What You Did Last Summer where the stage blood flows loke so much cheap, awful wine.
